Do you ever think about your SO when you masturbate? I just recently found out that my SO has been masturbating almost every day. I find it very arousing to know that she’s doing it, just wish that it would lead to sex. I’ve been asking her what turns her on and she continues to tell me she doesn’t know. But if she’s masturbating, she must be thinking of something, yes? And then so I wonder if she’s just embarrassed to tell me because it’s not me. I think that’s fine, I started thinking that I don’t think about her when I’m masturbating. So I don’t expect her to think of me. But she could at least share the theme of the thought or the situation that brought her to masturbate. So I’m just wondering, who out there thinks of their SO when they do it?