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Hello. Newly in the DB community. My wife and I (both almost 40) have sex once a month generally, twice on a good month. Bad months are of course zero and they’re becoming more common. Would you consider this a DB? Is there a threshold? Just curious what the community thinks. Thanks!
Edit: thank you all for the kind responses. I have a lot to consider. I’m not looking forward to discussing the possibility of therapy with my partner, but in order to heal I believe that’s a necessary sacrifice. Thanks again!
A dead bedroom is whatever you define it as. If someone has sex 20x a month and it goes to 5x they’d consider that dead. Same goes for someone having it 6x and going down to 1 per month. Real matter is if you’re sexually incompatible then that’s what can lead to a DB and needs to be addressed.
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