This is what came out of my husbands mouth after I asked him if he wanted to have sex. He said no I said okay I’m 22 and he’s 24. I then jumped in the shower and asked him if he could join which he didn’t want to in the first place but i insisted since it’s just been a while. I expected nothing sexual to happen his no means no and I respect that it was just supposed to be a shower. In the shower he starts kissing my neck from behind very very briefly and blurts “you thought I was feeling you” out loud. So I hear that and turn around and ask him what? And he just says oh it’s a song and I know it’s a song but I just feel like the timing was super horrible. Again I knew we weren’t gonna have sex even if he was teasing me or kissing me which he does often after saying no to having sex. We have a horrible sex life it just consists of me asking for sex him saying no and then I wait and ask again and again it’s a no but it’s not just sex it’s anything intimacy related. My throat knotted and I had to force myself not to cry because I’ve cried so much but I just feel like he confirmed to me that he just isn’t as interested anymore?