I've lurked here awhile, most of my posts are in "surviving infidelity". On the 23rd we "celebrated" our 25th wedding anniversary. The week before that was my birthday, 2 events where you might think there's a good chance of some "parental activities". Nope... I can pretty much expect when it will happen, once every 3 weeks..
I had learned of her affair 13 yrs ago. We had a no sex anniversary then, turns out she had a date planned with him for the next night when I was out of town. This is relevant because since I have done little to acknowledge our anniversary. With it being our 25th I was discussing the upcoming anniversary with a friend of mine to get ideas (yes friend is a she, but also a lesbian in a relationship). I ordered a anniversary ring for her. It got delayed in shipping so I gave it to her this weekend. While talking to my friend she said my wife would love it and I'd get "rewarded" for sure. I stated that I'd get about 2 min of a half hearted once a year bj before she would roll to her back and lay there.. I hate being right.... this morning since we had an "extra" hour I tried to initiate... but no luck (didn't wait the 3 week reset, sad LOL) . When I rolled away rejected I made a comment about her not being interested... she replied "I could maybe be convinced". I left the room thinking. Screw that!!. I don't think that "J" had to work hard to "convince" you. I just really needed a rant.