Vent only, No advice. Haven't had sex with the wife since the beginning of COVID. I haven't even seen her naked since. She suffers from depression and poor self image. It's a shame she's really let herself go over the years, gained a lot of weight, and puts little effort into her appearance. Meanwhile I've continued to maintain my health and take pride in my appearance. I'd imagine the general public wonders what an odd couple we are when we're out together. She's never been much for physical touch and affection. I rarely even get a touch, a hug or a kiss from her. Maybe once a week? Nor does she welcome any physical affection from me. I'm at the point where I no longer even want the affection from her. Hate to say it but I'd rather find it elsewhere, from someone who appreciates and desires me and who is just as desirable.