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So it's been a year and a half, and I've told this story so many times. At first she didn't seem to want certain things, but very quickly she told me she was turn off by anything sex related, and couldn't even stand sexual touch.
We were very sexually active and very kinky up until that point, and now it's almost two years since I've felt her in that way. It's so depressing having to wait until she falls asleep to get off, and I feel so resentful.
I've told her time and time again the toll this is taking on me emotionally, but she's not tried anything different. Honestly, I don't even know what can I ask from her that doesn't feel like forcing her.
I miss the relationship we have when we were active, I feel mentally checked out and alone in here and yet sometimes I still famtasize about her.
Does it ever get easier?
Just for others to understand - please address these things in their infancy and not wait so long.
If you continue to do what you’re currently doing then it’ll only get worse. Frustration lead to resentment which leads to anger which leads to cheating/divorce etc.
You two should work together towards progress or work towards separation, but not stay where you’re at. If they won’t join you in that goal then you know which direction to work towards.
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