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Not a super long post. Headed off to a business/pleasure trip to a resort for a few days.
Spotted the wife out of the corner of my eye pack her little white bag which contains the only 2 pieces of lingerie she owns... to which I've seen once (didn't even see it post wedding/honeymoon) anyways I tried my hardest to not get excited at the thought.
Upon arrival to our room there is a very large mirror which reflects the entire room and bed, the wife commented "oh look a nice big sex mirror"
I acknowledged this but refrained from speaking my mind.
So with all that build up and hype I am pleased to say we walked away from this trip in a better business position 🤣
Guess the lingerie and "sex mirror" can wait 😮💨 to be honest I'd prefer some physical intamacy without a sex mirror and be more sensual. Glad I didn't get my hopes up. Guess for her it was the 0.02 seconds of thought that counted 🙃
Ok so now that the trip didn’t work out like you’d planned why don’t you sit and have a gentle chat with her about it? Point out how you saw her packing lingerie and you heard the comment about the mirror and ask her what she wanted to have happen. At what point was she expecting you to take the reigns? Your LL wife isn’t likely to fully initiate. Talk to her!!! You need to approach her from a place of curiosity and not irritation if you want her to give you information you can actually use.
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I don’t know the ins and outs of your specific scenario so I can’t comment on it. You could be contributing to your DB unknowingly even with your good intentions. Desire is fickle and mysterious and often hard to pin down. Reading books on the mechanism of desire and developing some strategies based on that might be a worthwhile venture. Mating in Captivity was the book I read that spoke to me. I read this book in 2 days at the end of May and started trying different things. There has not been a single period of 7 consecutive days since then where we haven’t had sex… Good sex.