Does anyone who is with or has previously been with someone in a DB relationship experienced issues with lying. My partner (LLF) makes excuses/lies as to why we can not even cuddle up on a sofa. But beyond that, there are lies about things that do not even make sense. A big one currently is that she is pretending to be having appoints for HRT in a different town then where her GP is. By chance, I came across a pot of pills containing phentermine from a fat loss clinic in the town where she claims she needs to go for her HRT. It is lies on top of lies, It seems that the lack of intimacy goes hand in hand with the lying and just adds to the feelings of loneliness. I don't know who this person is that I am with or what her life plans are. I discuss my plans for the future, hoping for some sort of dialogue to make sure we are working towards things we both want, but she just agrees with me and the proceeds to contradict herself with her actions.