I'm gonna give two occasions this happened. These aren't the only ones but I want to hear from the guys how this would make you feel and from ladies how fucked up is this.

Last year for our anniversary went on vacation. Wife told me to pick out what lingerie I wanted to see her in. 1 for every night which was 5 nights. We had sex once and after I made her orgasm the first time she wanted to rush and get it over with. I never saw one of those out fits on her.

Recently she got something very very sexy. She showed me it and I said yes you need that. It comes in and she lays it on The bed so I can see it. I told her I loved it and can't wait to see it on her tonight. Later that night she tells me she's not feeling great and can we "do the thing" tomorrow. I said absolutely and I kind of pampered/took care of her that night. The next morning I initiated and we had sex. Not great but good. We both got off. Later that day I told her I can't to see that thing in her and she says "you already got sex today". So I told her ok baby. Didn't want to force it. Then proceeded to tell me she was kidding. Did I ever see it? NO. The next day I ask her if I get to see her in the outfit and she replies with "sex is all you ever think about".

Want to hear what others think of these two interactions I had with my wife.

Here's my opinion: it's cruel. Down right cruel and manipulation.