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My wife (41/LLF) doesnāt like receiving. I mean, itās less work on my part, but i truly ENJOY giving it and making her squirm. But I also LOVE getting BJs, and told her that was an absolute necessity in our marriage. So i receive oral from her, but she refuses to let me go down on herā¦ I dont know how i feel about it.
For context, when we were dating, we gave and received a lot of oral. She was a virgin when we got married, so we did āother thingsā instead. Which she says she now regrets. Just think itās fucked up when a spouse does that to another spouse.
Edit: Any females in here actually dont like it because they think itās gross? My wife says she wants to kiss me after and even if i wash my mouth she says she will still taste herself on me.
Why? What āother stuffā are you referring to?
My wife prefers hands too. And Iām really good with them. But I also like the tasteā¦ ammiweird?
Well, this just makes me wanna do it more lol.
Married about 15 years. She says itās because of hygiene and stuff. Doesnāt want to kiss me after cuz Iād have her juices in my mouth basically.
Yes, enthusiastic blowies areā¦. A rarity in married life, at least in these halls!! Lol
How often you get blown / sex / sexual release from your wife?
Dude, what? You donāt like receivingā¦? Please explain, Iām genuinely curious how you donāt like / love the sensation.
Obviously, thereās many who can put mouth on penis, and thatās the sensation too; mechanical, boring, mouth on penis, move back n forth, and teeth scrape.
Then thereās (seemingly, as who responded on here) many who give GREAT BJs and are dialed in with their technique.
Soā¦ have you just never had a good BJ?
Well itās less work for you pal. Although I share your sentiment- I genuinely love it and I think my technique is good. And I know how to read body language and tease enough to make them squirm.
Very unfortunate.
Does she like going down on you???
Something about emotional connection, butā¦ Iām thinking maybe a hypnotist? I dunnoā¦ but something needs to happen. She needs to start giving more BJs
āLove giving blowjobsā - good god. Wish my wife were into it. Those words are like unicorn words lol. How is ātouchā playful but PIV isnāt?
Iām fresh off a DB ā¦ had sex this week 2x and last week 11. 2 months ago it was VERY few and far between
Pretty dead bedroomā¦. Have yāall talked about it. Mine at least gives me BJs, but they are sparse.
What about giving (you) oral? How often yall have sex?
Why are BJs gross for you? Bad experience in past? Are you married?
Open up the comms and get that dialogue going my friend
Do you go down on him? I think it would be an easy tit for tat
Donāt let her. Itās important to you. Itāll forever be a point of contention if she stops altogether. Which she did and I said it was a deal breaker- not gonna go the rest of my life without a blowjob from the women who supposedly wants to spend the rest of her life with me
And what changed for you about giving BJs?
Just not after marriage. Dunno why it changed
Maybe true, but likely not. She orgasmed plenty of Oās with me while dating
Why donāt you like it?
Where can I find these women?? I have a nice clean one, larger than average but not BBC-style lol. Thereās something very hot Iāve always wanted my wife to love it, never did
Whatās her reason? YOU? Or the act? Mine seems like the act
Why? Technique maybe? EVER have a good one?
Do you like hands better? Or just dick. Great that you love giving.
Strange. Whereās a hypnotist when you need them?
You think itās gross cuz you think your V is dirty? What about after shower? Iām genuinely trying to understand
Ha. 1000%. While I like that sheās loyal and committed and etc etc, I thinkā¦ Iād rather just love a BJ regularly
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How often you have sex? PIV and oral for her?