Male 30 HL and female 29 LL

She’s always gone back and forth on things when it came to sex and “rough housing”. Some days she’d be all for it and then the next she’d act like I was a disgusting creature and how dare I try to touch her butt or whatever. About a month ago, she burst out at me that she was tired of me “coming onto her randomly” like when she’s in the kitchen or wherever in the house.

Disappointing? Yeah of course but whatever. Considering how sad our actual sex life has been lately this shouldn’t be too surprising. So fine I said ok I’ll stop, and I’ve done exactly that. Temptation is a constant, but I’ve not touched her inappropriately for weeks now.

Well about an hour ago she came into my home office while I was playing a video game, started getting touchy feely and grabbed my junk. Wtf, I put my headphones down and asked her what she was doing. She said she was just having fun. I said um no thank you can’t you see I’m doing something.

Queue an argument, because duh of course. Near the end of it she even had the gall to say “why don’t you come onto me anymore? Do you not like me anymore?” I can’t say I’m surprised to be honest, but sadder still, I’m kind of proud of myself for rejecting her. It’s always her rejecting me, never me turning her down.

Does me enjoying having rejected her make me a petty/bad person?