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I definitely feel like the attraction must be completely gone if you do not want to have sex with your partner. Our relationship is great but the no sex and not initiating or making it fun has really been getting to me. I’ve communicated how I feel so many times and nothing changes if anything things get worse.
Attraction/desire is complex and it can come and go naturally on its own. You can be unknowingly contributing to their reduction in desire towards you and not even know it. The even suckier part is if your spouse loves you they might not tell you exactly why they no longer desire you because they know it’ll crush you and they don’t want to be cruel.
I was LL4U towards my ex and I could tell you exactly why, and they all had to do with his inability to do anything with any conviction. Lack of confidence, lack of drive, lack of accountability. Poor hygiene. Bad attitude. No thank you. Not saying this is your issue or anything, just giving you the example from my life in case there are commonalities.
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