My wife and I have been married for almost 25 years. We gave had sex 4 times in 11 years. Nothing in the last 7 years. I am at my breaking point. I know sex is not everything, but it is important to me. She says she just doesn't need or want it. I tried everything. I tried doing more around the house and helping with the kids more. Now it's just expected and still no sex. Is it ever acceptable to get a friend with benefits? I met a lady on line a few weeks ago and she actually made me feel wanted for the first time in years. She ghosted me before we could meet in person. But it was so nice chatting with her while it lasted. Does this make me a bad person? I really miss the intimacy and the feeling of being wanted.