Where do I even start?? Married 11 years. Her 1st, my 3rd. Yes, we were in late 30s when me met. Let’s say i had more “worldly” experience than her but I saw that as a great learning opportunity. Our relationship started out great. Even though physical distance separated us at first, she wore costumes; we did a little role play; she would give me oral on the couch which led to other things on the couch; we’d play “just the tip” (unintentionally during regular sex or in the shower); a few sexy pictures (nothing outrageous or even X-rated) so I thought this is GREAT!!

So we got married and moved into her house where we stayed about 3 years. When we got back from the honeymoon, all that from earlier STOPPED even with her saying it to me on our return. OK…..Sex was still on a fairly consistent basis so that wasn’t too bad. But then we got OUR house together and it’s like day and night.

So sex virtually stopped. She went “all natural” down there because one of my favorite activities was going down on her. Blowjobs lasts 45 seconds maybe a minute if I’m lucky. Sex is only on the weekend and it’s pretty much her coming out of the shower saying “OK if you want any, come over here.” Great foreplay, right? She no longer has her figure when we married and has put on about 70-80 pounds. O and BTW since marrying she has never done any position besides missionary. Sex doesn’t last longer than five minutes and is down to about once a month. Even in that time I can still get her to orgasm hard but nothing for me and she won’t finish me off. I haven’t had orgasmic passionate animalistic sex with her in seven years!! So to wrap up this post is this a lost cause?