We used to have an amazing sex life. But almost as soon as we got married it’s like a switch went off and she is almost asexual. Sometimes we go months without. And it’s been almost 15 years now. Great example… I asked for a blowjob for my birthday which was Friday) and she asked if she could give me that either that day or the next so of course I agreed. But now that Sunday is over and it still hasn’t happened I can only assume it isn’t going to. I shouldn’t get so disappointed over a blow job. But it does bother me. This is fairly normal and I’m about at a point where I give up doing anything sexual with her. Anybody have any thoughts?