So me andnmy wife finally had the conversation. I sat down with her and told her how I felt about us not having sex. I told her that it made me feel like something was wrong with me, like I wasn't good enough, or she just didn't see me in that way anymore. I told her that we needed to figure out what the cause is because if we leave things the way they are im going to resent her andnits going to lead to the end of the marriage. I told her that I didn't want to force her to have sex with me out of some obligation, but because she wants me, she desires me. So far she has gone to one therapy session but we never talked about it again. It has only been a short time since all this has happened I just don't feel like I can wait around and continue to keep feeling little thus. We have been together for 13 years and I feelclike we should call it quits and part ways. I have no idea, im just torn because I lover her I do but I can't live like this. I feel disgusting.