I (23HLM) sat down with my gf (22LLF) last night and had a talk with her about our sex life. The fact that we are in our 20s and she doesn’t hardly ever seem to want it anymore, about the last 5 months. I told her that while I understand she has needs and feelings, she also has to understand that I do as well. She got angry and told me I didn’t understand her or her feelings. I told her that she makes me feel undesirable and unwanted when I try to have sex with her and she just brushes me off. She said it’s not me, it’s her. I asked her to go talk to someone and she said she didn’t need to that she would be fine.

Edit: for anyone asking I ended things last night with her and told her we were both too young to be in a relationship like this and that deserved someone who would accept her for what she wants and needs