Hey everyone, I need some help. My girlfriend and I have completely stooped having sex. I honestly can't remember how long it has been but well over 2 years. There not passion no desire no foreplay, no kissing nothing. We give each other a peck here and there but that's it. I tried talking to her about it before and all she said was that she wasn't a sexual person and I would just have to het used to it. I love her so much but I can't do this anymore. I dont wanna cheat but this is driving me crazy. I'm going insane. There's no passion, no desire no foreplay nothing man. I feel like my skin is crawling in so damn frustrated. What do I do. Update: we had a sit down conversation and into her that not having sex made me feel unwanted and undesirable. That maybe there was something wrong with me that she can't get in the mood. She told me as like the last time she wasn't a very sexual person. She said it be early onset menopause or the fact that there was some childhood trauma. I said that we need to find out what the issue is because if this persists it would end our relationship. We are both seeking therapy. Will update again if and when anything changes