Been married for about a decade and at first the sex was decent, not mind blowing or adventurious etc. Got married and it stayed the same. We have no kids, mid 40s etc. The last few years, say 5 or so, her sex drive was almost non exiatant and she would fuck once in a while, think the last time she started it was 3 or 4 years ago. When we do have sex, she is basically juat laying there with very little feedback.. rub her pussy, no movement, no feedback etc, just lays there, go down on her, the same thing. She says she has never had an orgasm and ive had her tell me exactly what she wants me to do with my hands etc but after 50 mins i get tired and give up bc there is no physical or vocal feedback.

The last 6 months havebeen even worse, she really found religion and all ahe watches is christian based stuff, listens to the same, prays for 1 to 2 hours a day when she is not working. She told me that she does not want to have sex until we are married in the chatholic church bc its a sin to have sex when we are not married in gods eyes, even though we are legally married. WTF. Ive told her on a few occassions that i feel like a roommate. Weve slept in different rooms for years bc any movement or sound wakes her up and she can not go back to sleep. Over the last few years ive slowly disconnected from her emotionally, even though i still love her, but this is getting unbearable. Need help. Really considering stepping out and finding someone in a similar situation and see where it goes.