Me (30HLM) and my fiancee (30LLF) have been together for just shy of three years. In the beginning things were great! We were intimate every chance we got whether that was in person or vie text or pictures/videos. I work from home which gives me the chance to do a lot of the chores in and around my work day. I do a lot of the cooking and planning dates and paying for things.

About a year ago things started to slow down a bit. We got engaged last September and I stupidly thought that things would pick up again but boy oh boy was I wrong. In the last 10 months we have been intimate once and that was me initiating. A few months back her sister called me ‘Vitamin D’ and she just laughed along with it. I don’t know what she’s been saying to her sister but it infuriates me that she goes along with it and acts like everything between us is normal.

I’ve asked her if there’s anything I can do to help or if there’s anything we can both do and she said that she would think about it but she never did. Then she wanted to eat better and to exercise but hasn’t made an attempt to do either. I eat well and I go to the gym five times a week, I’ve tried to encourage her but I’m brushed off