I (42f) know I have it better than most here since my husband and I have sex occasionally (once a month to once every other month) but I want to keep a tally and written reminder of my attempts to have sex.

So We talked about having sex Wednesday evening. I asked him if he would shower and he said yes. Well fast forward to yesterday evening: He ends up home 2 hours later than expected because he had to drive a coworker home and then back into town. He still says he wants sex but takes his time getting to bed with me and by that time I fell asleep. I woke up just now, asked if we could have sex later before his alarm.goes off, and he mumbled and said "We'll see." When I asked if he got a shower, his answer was again no. I don't even want to have sex anymore 😕

If his boss called him at 4am to go outbto do a job, he would be up un an instant...