So last night I (HL 42f) initiated and we started having sex. Right off the bat I was turned off because he (39 m) was just barely suckling, not saying much of anything, and just not turning me on. I then told him I bought something to spice things up and brought out a small bullet vibrator. He seemed confused. 😕 I told him he could hold it against my clit but he kept missing it. I'd encourage him with noises and moving it but he would just let it drop or positioned it where I couldn't feel anything. Finally he said he would not use it and wanted to stop having sex. I had to coax him back into sex and ask for dirty talk.

He asked me if I wanted to do 69 and I said no. Why would I want to put my mouth on him after he didn't want to please me? From there I asked him what he wanted to do or if there was a role playing situation he wanted to act out. He chose one, but it was mostly me ad libbing. He finished In a few minutes and there was no aftercare or helping me cum. I'm so upset because I feel used and not at all desired. I don't understand how someone can be this dense. To top it all off, he snapped at me this morning, making me wish I had never had sex. Im tired of this...

As if the bad hygiene (I've posted about this before) isn't enough, I have now confirmed he can't even use a toy right. I try not to be negative, but this guy refused to use a toy and didn't even satisfy me but doesn't see why I'm angry