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I (36 HLW) have been married to my husband (35 LLH) for over a decade now. We have 4 kids together, but really haven't been sexually active with each other since the second child was born. The only time he would show interest in me was when he'd decide he wanted another baby. Then once I got pregnant, he'd be back to not wanting intimacy. It's frustrating! What's worse, is he doesn't help with the kids at all. I feel like a single mother of 4 kids AND I'm not getting satisfied.
I've voiced my displeasure with him, but he's so dismissive of my feelings towards sex. I'm not sure what's going on with him. If having kids is some kind of power trip or if he was just trying to lock me down. I don't know anymore. I just know i can't keep living in this cycle of doing everything for him and the kids and not getting any pleasure or attention in return!
Have you considered discussing your sexual needs with him, and asking about permission to pursue that part of your life outside your marriage? Some low libido partners are ok with their high libido other half going outside for that part of the relationship.
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