Brief rundown, I am a 62-year-old man married to a 55-year-old woman I’m not gonna say I’m a high libido male I think I have a normal libido. But here goes in the past 7 years we have had sex 3 times. In past 13 years we had sex 5 times. I can’t tell you what works to fix it. I can only tell you it doesn’t work that I tried that didn’t work.

I tried having an open honest conversation with her expressing my wishes to have more sex more often I already do most of the work around the house, but I decided to do more I put all the blame on myself, and I started to read books on how to fix it I tried different that were also supposed to help the situation I spoke with therapist I worked elsewhere for sex never got any, but I looked Some of the things that I tried absolutely none of them work and I know why it’s because in order for it to work. Both people have to be on the same page and trying to make it work. It’s never just one person‘s fault. If your partner is not willing or willing to change or willing to work with you on this issue, then never going to be fixed And now after 17 years of marriage, 12 of which were essentially sexless . I finally gave in and went to a hooker and to my shame I cannot stay hard or orgasm any longer. I’m not resentful. I just know she absolutely killed libido with her actions