I have had a DB for 7 years. I have communicated to my wife on mutliple occasions that I'm unhappy with our current sex life and suggested seeing a therapist with all attempts being shot down. I even asked if we could open the marriage and was ignored. We have a two year old and my wife wanted a second. I told her I wasn't having another kid until we fixed our sex life which I was told nothing was wrong and to be happy. Some time passed and she seemed to be trying and things were great until I found out she was pregnant and then everything stopped again. I feel used and defeated. I constantly feel like I must be doing something wrong, that I must be unattractive or bad in bed. After having so much doubt I ended up going into a spiral and have been constantly depressed. I was out recently at a work event and was getting hit on. I ended up going back to her place and hooking up. All my doubts about me being unattractive or bad in bed were wrong. She had 5 orgasms and said I was the best she ever had. I haven't felt appreciated like this in so long. It was amazing to have a sexual partner that appreciated me and wanted to please me. I'm not sure what to do next. I love my wife and she is an amazing mother and friend, but our bedroom life is non-existent. Anyone that has been in a similar predicament as me what did you do?