So (50HLM) recently got out of a DB. There is more out there.

After 10 years of feeling like I wasn’t attractive and only worth the $$ I could put into the house, suddenly I’m out, I’m desired, I’m having fun, I’m off the depression meds after realizing it isn’t me after all - it was the mundane, sexless, tiring, unimaginative, bullshit life of never being desired and always being second to her whims, problems, issues and lack of understanding that physical needs cannot be simply ignored.

It may be painful (I’m sure divorce is going to kick my ass and paycheck), and it certainly hurts those around you but fuck me, it’s worth it. Do your best to minimize the hurt but don’t let it hold you back.

Happy to PM to support and discuss my decision, impacts, etc, but I’m suddenly positive, optimistic, happy, dating and FUCKING again (a lot). With or without the brave new scene of Tinder hookups, there is a big wide world waiting for you and you’re worth knowing, trust me on this.

My friends - don’t settle. Every one of us deserves happiness. Go find it and grab it with both hands (and genitals!). Above all, be happy.