I've been in this group for a while and I'm finally letting loose with my frustrations. We've been married like 12 years now and the sex life has really died off the last 5 years or so to the point where it's once a year. This is my second marriage and the first one also went into a dead bedroom but for its own reasons, of course. I realize there are some things that I probably need to do. I've tried expressing myself more recently. But the grind of life seems to be in the way. And I just don't feel like a priority. She has work, a side business, she focuses on chores, then reading books and watching shows, and then the young kids. She just doesn't seem bothered by our lack of intimacy at all, either. I just don't feel like a priority or an interest at all.