My (40 HLF) husband's (42 LL4MM) has very specific kinks. In the past I've tried to cater to what he likes. I'm not perfect at it (my body is a normal 40 year old who is pregnant and has had a few kids, not a pornstar like he's into) but I try. I've purchased the type of really slutty clothing he's into (ripped cutoff shorts, simple black thongs, ripped shirts) and if I wear it on a night he's well rested and not stressed I might get lucky and have sex. It's not sex that I enjoy much. But at least I get my once a month f*ck right?

I don't know if I should just give up and accept his kinks are the only ones that matter in our marriage or what. It has always bothered me that the ratio of him going down on me to me giving him head is about 1:100. I'm 26 weeks pregnant, super horny, and he hasn't gone down on me once. We had sex a few weeks ago and it was just bad. He kissed my neck for a few minutes then flipped me over, fingered me super dry, then proceeded to put all his weight on me to have sex with me. He's like 275lbs so that's not so comfortable. I used my vibe (hard to keep it in the right spot) so I finally came and he finished soon after.

I don't even want to have sex (with him) anymore. But I also don't want to accept a forever DB. Is bad sex better than no sex?

Yes I've told him my kinks and he basically laughs at them. Number one is feeling desired so I guess that's out.