I am HLM 51 married to a LLF 52 after no sex over Christmas, new year or our wedding anniversary last weekend we went away fora short break Sunday morning she initiated some roleplay on her (first in 4 months of any kind of intimacy), and I happily bring her to orgasm with my fingers.

Afterwards while we are cuddling I say it would have been nice if she had done something for me. She said , "I thought because you enjoy giving me pleasure that was enough and I didn't need to do anything"😡

Have I been gaslighted! I was so taken a back at what she said, I couldn't believe it. All this time has she thought that way? It's not the only reason she has a LL there are medical reasons. I feel like I have been played😮