So I’ve been married for 3 years now. Me and my wife were together for a year before getting married (the typical length of time for an army guy🤣) and during the first year and change of our relationship the sex was GREAT and like very frequent. I’m talking 2-3 times a day sometimes. But once we got married it slowed down… and then we had a child 2 years ago and it STOPPED. I might get laid once every 4-6 MONTHS. It’s really killing me bc I work hard as I can to provide a good life for her and my child so that she can be a SAHM and I still take her on dates, buy her gifts and flowers and help around the house as much as I can. What’s killing me though is she’s constantly giving me ways to “step up my game” like the men in her romance novels😤 when she can’t even bring herself to get me a gift for my birthday or Christmas…. Idk guys it just feels like I try and try and get nothing. I mean Everytime I try to have some “intimacy” she shuts it down bc she’s “tired” or “not in the mood” and it honestly has me thinking of leaving sometimes as ashamed as that makes me to say… any advice?