So I've been married almost 25 years. My wife and I have not had sex since 2017. It is not for lack of trying. Personally at my age, I am happy to be able to still get aroused. However there is one caveat. I am on two medications due to an enlarged prostate. The one of them is Cialis. I have been on Cialis for 3 months and it is a godsend. However I am in a constant state of arousal and semi-flacid. I spoke to the doctor and while it is not a danger to my body, without a release two or three times a week my prostate could actually close up. I would then have to be catheterized or choose the surgery immediately. She knows I need a release, but is unwilling to make love. So honestly, with my face covered, I do streaming on various apps.