In my ongoing DB of 5 years, we are both 57. He does have low T that he chooses not to treat and he drinks. We've had several talks, tonight he suggests we try and have sex. I've waited, dreamed, wished, wanted etc. I thought woohooo, yes!, let's start a great new year. It lasted 4 mins, 1 of it being foreplay and getting my clothes off. Asked me was I gonna squeal? wtf! He was done in 3 at about 3/4 hard, I didn't even get warmed up. I just feel so ungrateful, in tears and wish I'd hadn't even asked but he did what I asked of him. He said I needed a younger man not someone with a shrunk dick. This fuckin sucks so bad and IDK that it even counts as sex. I think it's better to go without than it be like this. :(

Sexting does NOT do it for me so don't even!