Longtime active member. No longer in a dead bedroom (I left her) but I still stay active in this community as someone on the other side to offer hope.

One of the biggest pains for me when in my dead bedroom was feeling unattractive. There must be something wrong with me right? Do I not look attractive to her? Why doesn’t she want me? It put quite the damper on my mental health. It wasn’t till later once I was single again that I realized there are plenty of women who find me attractive, and I got my confidence back. I wish I knew that when I was in the midst of my dead bedroom.

So. Social experiment. Post your photo in the comment section if you wish. No pressure or no obligation I know many use throwaway accounts to vent here. This is just for those who want to participate.

Commenters: say something nice. No mean or crude comments. This is an uplifting post. Help people find their confidence again. it’s so key. Remember, it’s not you. You are enough. But sometimes we need a reminder of this.