My husband and I have always been very open with talking about sex. Which is a good thing. He is open with me about his kinks and I share mine with him, even though we have very different fetishes and such.

I'm pregnant and we've had sex once since the baby was conceived in Oct. Today he was joking about how he's sad he can't get a bunch of women (esp sex workers) pregnant (he's going to get a vacestomy soon). He was kidding, as I know he'd never DO that, but it just kills me everytime he talks about wanting to have sex w other women while he ignores me sexually. He has no idea how much it hurts.

It's just funny to me when men tell me women are hotter pregnant. My husband is clearly NOT more attracted to me when I'm preg. I wish he was. I wish I didn't feel so damn ugly.