My wife (31LLF) is a knock out. Gorgeous, athletic, smart. Our sex life was incredible for exactly 1 year. I know her past relationships also had very active freaky sex lives. I left to finish some medical training for 16 months. It was a tough decision but the right move for my career. Our sex life came to a screeching halt. I assumed it would recover after my absence. We got married, got a house, and…no change. Zero intimacy. No kidding. No oral. I have brought it up many times. Brought up therapy, she refused. We are both in good shape, exercise daily, no mental health meds. I don’t know what happened. Weirdest thing is, at this point I don’t feel like I care anymore. It’s not a battle I want to fight. I will just take longer showers until something gives.