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well over thanksgiving and a lot of asking questions, arguing, etc. my wife finally said we need to talk. i worked friday and saturday when she texted me to come home so we could discuss our problem. as i said in a previous post we have not been intimate for years, and the "pity" sex well just does not do anything for me. seems wrong and forced. i get there had to be close to 4:00 that afternoon and she is sitting in our hot tub with one of her friends, who is married also. well they spill the beans, they have been intimate with each other for roughly the 5 years we have had our struggles. she told me she is not a lesbian but bi-sexual as sometimes they use toys on each other only. whatever i guess, the friends husband and her have been having issues also i find out and that is why they started doing things one night purely accidentally they said. i do not know what to do, i told her all she needed to do was talk to me, i am a very understanding person and if she needed more or other things i would have listened but instead she did it behind my back and made me feel like i did somethign wrong. where do i go from here?
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