Our bedroom is now a dead space. I've (45m) been married to my beautiful wife (44f) for over 20 years and things are dead. Wasn't always like this. We were regular 2-3 a week. Got into extra things together. Very intimate regularly. Always kisses goodbye and when we saw each other. Over the past year it's declined drastically to once a month and nothing the last 2 months. Yes, I know it could be worse. But intimacy has always been huge in our relationship and now I get pushed away and damn near have to beg for a real hug. I don't know what's happened. I've tried everything. Gotten nowhere. We've had conversations about it and now all of a sudden it's not a priority for her and it's "my problem". She says she hasn't given up on us but it feels like it. Part of me wants to keep trying and the other part wants to be done and end it.