So being really honest, I have never been satisified with my sex life in my marriage. We have had periods where we have sex ever few days, but then it can be months without anything at all.

I have been thinking in the last few days maybe it is not just libido levels, I am very high and I thought my wife was before we got married.

I think what gets me more is before we got married she said she was into public sex (where no one would see us, like at a beech) anal, masturbating online with other couples. Once we got married I discovered she is very vanilla. She told me she was very kinky before we got married.

Has anyone else had this issue?

​