Dated 3 years and things started to slow right before the wedding date but picked back up when something was said. Married for 4 and it's about all stop and when it does happen it's no desire 0 passion get it over with. How can someone with so little effort in this department do and plan the future having been given "the talk" several times. Even went so far as to open the marriage as long as she doesn't have to know. Planting long term landscaping in the yard, planning a cruise 2024, plans, plans, and more plans. She's going to be lucky to be here next month. I'm so frustrated that she seems so blind. I get a less emotional kiss (one a day) than her own children. I get a meal cooked a day that's the extent. Have to do my own laundry, and I pay for everything, yes everything but food.

I have someone amazing now and I can't do it any longer. So why do I think about splitting the pets and where she's going to go when I pull the plug. She doesn't think about my needs. Why do I think about hers?

Ok rant and vent over. Hope you all find your path.