I’m 34(M) have been together with my wife 33 for 10 years. We have two beautiful children, a girl and a boy. Prior to kids, our sex life was not an issue. Fast forward and ever since my daughter was born 5 years ago, our sexlife has been in the toilet. She was and still is dealing with postpartum depression and has been put on medication which I think I have been very understanding and supportive. We would have sex once every 3-4 months. It got a little better before my son was born almost 2 years ago and this past year or so it’s back in the toilet and currently haven’t had sex in a year. She has told me before that she doesn’t think sex holds a marriage together and says she can do without it and really only has sex to fulfill my needs. She’s never in the mood, always comes up with every excuse you can think of. We’ve gotten in fights over this, I feel like we are friends that have kids together. I do not want to be in a sexless marriage. It’s making me depressed and irritated quite often. We’ve talked about date nights to create that “romantic” spark as she says. She thinks that’s all I care about but I miss the intimacy, bonding, etc. I don’t even ask anymore. We have a year left on our lease at our house and if things don’t get better, I think I’m going to ask for a divorce…. Any advice or suggestions??