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My friend is a very sexually active person. She loves to talk about her sex life and talk about what her newest situations or experiments were.
It has gotten to the point that I will talk about a kink or fantasy I enjoy and she goes and does it with her boyfriend and will report back to me on how much they liked it. It makes me sad that I can't request or discuss new kinks or fantasies with my wife, but I can with my friend.
Just a little jealous of my friends and their lives compared to mine I guess. It's unfortunate. Hope everyone is staying strong.
Yeah, it's soul crushing. I feel you
Thank you for the nice message. I think she would definitely understand and be receptive to taking it easy on this topic. I think she wants to help, and if I told her I have hope that she would stop.
A mix of unwillingness to explore, Christian guilt of enjoying sex and sexuality, and only wanting sex to lead to a baby, not for pleasure.
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She and I had always been close, but I will definitely tell her to stop now. It hasn't always been like that, just more recently she has been saying "yeah, X fantasy got me wanting to try it, so...."
I will be telling her not to share as much, I agree. I guess I was just focusing more on my own relationship when I heard it.