Well I'm done. 52 HLM with a 54LLF normally it's the usual Saturday unwritten scheduled starfish. Goes like this wake up and grin stroke pet and fondle until something happens. Saturday morning comes and I'm greeted with "I have to get up I can't lay around all day". I figure ok it will be shifted to Sunday. Haven't been feeling the greatest so I slept in and she bounces up with the same line. I must have unthinkingly gave a look. She says "Maybe this evening" that's the biggest lie ever. Evening rolls around and I go to bed early just to chill. Her and step son are occupying the tv and sofa so nothing making me want to stay there. Comes bedtime and I am still up but have the lights dimmed. She just gets ready for bed.

This has been on going for years. No kids between us and no real financial entanglements so divorce it is.