Recently, my girlfriend and I of 3 years have reached the dead bedroom phase. We have talked through things quite a bit and have concluded that she doesn't have any sexual attraction towards me anymore for the moment. She concluded that it is not towards me personally or due to anything I have done, she just doesn't feel any sexual attraction for anyone at the moment. Currently we have a couples therapy appointment scheduled for the end of March to see if there's something there that might help us. We are also both somewhat religious, though not so much recently, so we decided to start going to church together and try and see if having a more spiritual relationship might also help us out. We're not really looking for advice on whether we should stay together or break up, we know that we want to stay together and get through this together, we're just not really sure what that looks like. We have tried having sex and sort of "forcing" the attraction out through just an increase of sexual activities, but that hasn't done a lot, and she thinks that might be making it worse for her since she feels really uncomfortable during that. Any advice is welcome and if you need to ask any questions to help clarify things, ask away.