I am very nervous posting this. Not sure of response, backlash, etc. I’m typically a very private person, but now to my situation.

I have a very hl and I am now in a marriage where she once had a hl and now it is very low. I hate this saying, but it feels like we are roommates (Hate that phrase). We don’t even sleep in the same room anymore. Every time I initiate it, I get turned down. It’s probably been 6 months.

I am now at the point where I feel like I have to satisfy myself, and have been, often. I hate it though.

I am 35 and she is 33. I feel like I am too young to be going through this.

Am I wrong for being like this? What should I do?