After the last break up, I came across a guy that I went head over heels. It was fun with him and the s*x was the best I've ever had. So much chemistry and everything felt perfect except that he didn't want a relationship with be because I didn't tick his boxes. I had a theory of what he wanted (never confirmed with him) and that's something I can never change. After I confirmed several times with him of a relationship is out of options, I made up my mind.

Finally I told him at our last "date". I told him that he needs to let me to let him go. I broke it off.

My heart ached a little bit but I saved it from getting hurt further. Merely two months later, he announced his gf on social media.

One year later, he reached out - he and the gf broke off (he didn't tell me but I found out on his social). He's like I still think of you and miss our time together. I didn't reply. But he reached out again in a few days. I called, and all he wanted was s*x. Lol. I was like all the best. Bye.

I'm so proud of myself of being so strong and had the courage of saying no.