Physical description, between 5'9-5'10, 210 lbs, Caucasian/ olive skin tone and hazel eyes and what I would describe as a "buff-dadbod" build. I have alopecia, which means I don't have any hair on my face or head, but I get a lot of attention and am considered at the upper end of attractive. Most people tell me they can't even tell. I will send pics right away - Please don't reach out if you're not willing to verify identity fairly early on.

I'm charismatic and funny and sometimes stoic. I would say that I have a very broad and dynamic, but stable personality. I've gotten everything from, "I just can't wait to be around you." to, "Sometimes I just have to take a deep breath when you enter the room cuz you're so intimidating." I've had some amazing mentors throughout my lifetime, and I would say that I experience the breadth of human emotions very healthily. Yes - very emotionally healthy individual here. I'm very strong in my identity and my purpose. 

I've been cooking for a living for the past few years. I cook very well, and it would be the absolute joy of my life to be able to cook for my family one day. I would hope that my spouse would jump to take care of such domestic tasks, but at heart, I am a servant. I can think of no greater reward than resting in the knowledge that I'm providing for my progeny...

There are currently many different directions I could take my professional life. My music is growing and growing (heavy recording musician, and I also have my BA in Visual Arts) to the point where I'm probably going to need a manager soon. People are always telling me I should be a counselor, which I find both appealing and unappealing for various reasons. I've also just started a side business that is quickly gaining traction in my area... I've saved up a nice little chunk of cash, as it's only been me providing for myself all these years. Nothing amazing, but definitely enough for a down payment on a home and to get a life started for us. I also own a little piece of land out West, and every once in a while, I daydream about setting something up there - We can do whatever. My ultimate hope is to figure something out so that I don't have to leave my family at home every day to go to work; I want to be as present of a husband and father as possible, and quite frankly, the thought of having leave my wife and children alone on a daily basis infuriates me. Hopefully this is something we can figure out together...

Speaking of progeny, we're going to be making A LOT. Yes - *quite sex the drive over here, so I hope you're good with that. I know myself VERY, very well in this regard... I long to please you in all sorts of ways, to experiment with you, and to do whatever it takes to create a lifelong dynamic of pleasure and intimacy. I've been preserving myself by choice for my spouse for a long, long time, so I'd prefer someone of a similar ilk. It wouldn't bother me at all if you were an introvert...

Thanks for reading.