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I'm not sure how to start something like this, so I'll just jump into it. I'm currently looking for someone mature, experienced, and communicative to safely help me figure out my sexuality more.
I'm pretty inexperienced and want to change that. But more than that, I'm just interested in meeting someone who's mature and more knowledgeable and interested in mentoring someone younger. I've only been with one person, but I feel like I'm probably an extremely sexual person, and I want to explore that more with someone who's outside my normal bubble. Like... a friend, a mentor/coach, and a lover kind of mixed into one? Beyond that, I'm flexible as to the shape that relationship takes; boyfriend, friend with benefits, situationship, whatever. I do want to actually get comfortable/be friends with you, though, and would like his to be ongoing rather than short term. I don't feel like a one time thing is worth it.
I'm flexible on a lot of stuff, but some things I'm looking for specifically:
- Someone kind
- Someone notably older and for whom this isn't new
- Someone relatively attractive (I like a lot of kinds of people, but I feel like we both need this to make it work)
- Someone who knows what they like and knows how to make his partner feel good (and doesn't just know about sex from porn or whatever)
- Someone with good communication and hygiene
- Someone in the general NYC area
- Someone who's had a vasectomy (this one is especially huge for me)
Also, as a note, I feel especially attracted to dads for some reason, and do not care if you're married, so please don't feel weird about messaging me. I already feel weird enough for both of us, lmao.Â
Drop me a thoughtful message if you're interested. Just please don't be a creep. Thanks.
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