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What I am : 24 year old male who averages a 7 with no effort, and a 9 with some effort.
Figure I would use dating apps for what they are good for, and since I recently decided dating wasn't somthing I was interested in pursuing as most women aren't good enough for a long term commitment, I would Figure I will at least look for one or two, consensual, mutual agreement, and boundary respecting sec partner(s).
Since I am going for sex as oppsed to a real relationship though, I figured it wouldn't hurt to get some pictures of me that would appeal to this, as I know I am charming and know how to preform, but you can't see any of that on a dating app as everything's about imagination fueling.
So what are some good pictures that can appeal to a sex only focus. Descibe them in the best details you can.
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Also for those who may be concerned, I am going to be open and transparent about what I am looking for, as well as respect the choices of those involved as it's about both. Also I am not looking for a relationship, as I just never met anyone who seemed to have themselves together and be adventurous enough to keep up with me, so me not seeking it is so I don't break any hearts, as well as just relaxed and look for those healthy friendships people don't know how to have anymore.
I also don't want to turn friendships into sexual relationships because I don't want to lose any friends over this crap anymore, so I am looking to not play the "romantic game" as it's too deceptive and harmful even if it does get the results.
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Also please just give me some ideas for either photos, apps, or other, as I am not interested in people's judgements of me on a situation that has nothing to do with them, nor will harm anyone. So those who feel the need to act all high and just, please dont... it's disrespectful and won't be heard.
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Also the reason I am not doing this in person even though this is where my greatest strengths are, is because of my tendency to focus on more interesting or long term things when out and about, and a dating app is more passive and if market right, mutual.
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None the less, I hope to gain some good advice.
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