I suppose I should start off with some context. I am a 35yr old Australian man (Brisbane QLD if that helps). I am the first to admit I’m not the best looking guy you’ll meet, I’m not ugly, just average. I am confident in who I am and don’t feel the need to change myself for someone else. That all being said, I have been single for as long as I can remember. I am a bit of a geek and get social anxiety, so I never got into clubbing, and am not a drinker, so never hung out at a bar or anything like that. I have been on various dating sites pretty much since I was 19, starting with OKCupid, PoF, Tinder, etc. but have never so much as gotten a first date. In fact 90% of my matches have been scammers, so I’ve gotten pretty good at picking them out and reporting them. Obviously what I’m doing isn’t working, so I’m hoping someone on here can give me some advice, or point me towards some resources.