Sex between a true bottom boy/ son and a true top DAD is a sacred act. It depends both on the sameness (maleness) of both partners, as well as, and more importantly, their difference (you can't have unity without difference or diversity). A top's sexuality is masculine: expanding, entering, exploring, conquering, reaching outside itself, penetrating, discovering. A bottom's sexuality is feminine: accommodating, drawing-in, opening, submitting, beckoning, receiving, being-discovered.

The bottom willingly sacrifices his maleness to the top by spreading his legs and allowing the top to penetrate him and conquer him internally. This receptivity, submission, accommodation is very feminine. But it is precisely *as a male* that the bottom performs this feminine act. It is as a male and only as a male that he is able to give his maleness as an offering to the top. It is very free, even though it is very natural. The bottom, having given himself entirely to the top, then receives from the top the top's own maleness, which moves inside him and ultimately releases inside him. The bottom becomes yin and the top is yang and they are two men united in a perfect union of masculinity and femininity.

Anal sex is key, because it is the most intimate act two men can share, as well as the most fitting way for a bottom to submit to his top, and for the top to dominate and fill his bottom. As a true man, the top's sexual organ is his penis. The bottom's primary sexual organ is his anus/rectum. The top must always be the clearly masculine, dominant partner. It is totally inappropriate for a bottom to try to command or control his top. Rather, a bottom should revere and submit to his man, and constantly be trying to please him.